To change the SDM Server mode, you need to stop the SDM Server as described under Starting and Stopping the Software Deployment Manager.
To remove the link between SDM and the Java Control Framework, proceed as follows:
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1. Navigate to the usr/sap/<SID>/<INSTANCE_NAME>/SDM/program directory of your J2EE Engine.
2. Open a command prompt in this directory.
a. To remove the link between the SDM and the Java Control Framework execute the following command in the command line:
sdm jstartup "mode=standalone" for Windows
sdm.sh jstartup mode=standalone for UNIX
b. To integrate SDM in the Java Control Framework, use the following command:
sdm jstartup "mode=integrated" for Windows
sdm.sh jstartup mode=integrated for UNIX
3. Start the SDM Server again as described under Starting and Stopping the Software Deployment Manager.
You have changed the SDM Server mode.